The Choice

Each day we decide how we react to things that happen to us or around us. We can work toward a more positive mindset or give in to the negative voice inside.

In life, we often face challenges and obstacles that can easily weigh us down and dampen our spirits. However, our attitude and mindset can make all the difference. Choosing to have and maintain a positive mindset can help us overcome obstacles and lead to a happier, healthier, and more fulfilling life.

I struggle with this often but challenge myself daily to work to think more positively. Even those things I can’t control, like my hellacious morning commute or the weather, give me the option of seeing it in positive or negative terms.

Experts in psychology have long recognized the power of positive thinking. According to Dr. Martin Seligman, the founder of positive psychology, "Optimism is invaluable for a meaningful life. With a firm belief in a positive future, you can redirect your attention away from failure and toward success."

Similarly, Dr. Barbara Fredrickson, a leading researcher in the field of positive psychology, notes that "Positive emotions broaden our thinking, build our resilience, and help us connect with others. They also undo the effects of negative emotions and help us bounce back from setbacks."

Having a positive mindset can also have physical benefits. Research has shown that positive thinking can lower stress levels, boost the immune system, and even reduce the risk of chronic diseases such as cardiovascular disease.

So how can we cultivate and maintain a positive mindset?

For one, don’t be a fan of a sports team. I kid.

One key is to focus on gratitude. Taking time each day to reflect on what we are thankful for can shift our mindset from one of scarcity to one of abundance. Additionally, engaging in activities that bring us joy and fulfillment can boost our mood and increase our overall well-being.

It is also important to be mindful of our self-talk. The way we talk to ourselves can have a significant impact on our mood and mindset. Positive affirmations and reframing negative thoughts can help us cultivate a more positive outlook. This is where I battle each day to do better.

Of course, maintaining a positive mindset is not always easy. There will be times when we are faced with challenges and setbacks that can test our resolve. However, it is important to remember that we can choose how we respond to these challenges. We can focus on the negative and let it bring us down, or we can reframe our thinking and find the silver lining in the situation.

In the words of Dr. Wayne Dyer, "If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change."

If you’re anything like me, you know the power of positive thinking in your daily life but view it as an ongoing challenge to do better. Choosing to have and maintain a positive mindset can profoundly impact our lives. It can help us overcome obstacles, lead to greater well-being, and improve our physical health. While it may not always be easy, controlling our thoughts and mindset is within our reach.

So try it with me: focus on gratitude, engage in activities that make you feel good, and be mindful of the “soundtrack” in your head.

We have a choice. Make a positive one.